Aug 7th 2009 07:45:04 am
I just stumbled upon the website of Paul Graham, a computer programmer, entrepreneur, painter, essayist, etc, via kottke.org today, and I feel like I have found my own personal prophet/life coach. I’ve only read two of his essays, so I may be a little prematurely enthusiastic, but his essay on How to Do What You Love from 2006 just blew me away. It is exactly the matter-of-fact (and yet paralyzingly philosophical) things I have been obsessively thinking about at this stage in my life regarding my career/life path – but stated much more clearly.
Some awesome quotes from the essay:
“The world then was divided into two groups, grownups and kids. Grownups, like some kind of cursed race, had to work. Kids didn’t, but they did have to go to school, which was a dilute version of work meant to prepare us for the real thing. Much as we disliked school, the grownups all agreed that grownup work was worse, and that we had it easy.”
“What a recipe for alienation. By the time they reach an age to think about what they’d like to do, most kids have been thoroughly misled about the idea of loving one’s work. School has trained them to regard work as an unpleasant duty. Having a job is said to be even more onerous than schoolwork. And yet all the adults claim to like what they do. You can’t blame kids for thinking “I am not like these people; I am not suited to this world.”
“…if you admire two kinds of work equally, but one is more prestigious, you should probably choose the other. Your opinions about what’s admirable are always going to be slightly influenced by prestige, so if the two seem equal to you, you probably have more genuine admiration for the less prestigious one.”
“With such powerful forces leading us astray, it’s not surprising we find it so hard to discover what we like to work on. Most people are doomed in childhood by accepting the axiom that work = pain. Those who escape this are nearly all lured onto the rocks by prestige or money. How many even discover something they love to work on? A few hundred thousand, perhaps, out of billions.”
“Whichever route you take, expect a struggle. Finding work you love is very difficult. Most people fail. Even if you succeed, it’s rare to be free to work on what you want till your thirties or forties. But if you have the destination in sight you’ll be more likely to arrive at it. If you know you can love work, you’re in the home stretch, and if you know what work you love, you’re practically there.”
Anyway, you should read the article if only to realize, like I did, that there are smart people out there trying to help others do what they love. Graham currently funds start-up companies (he has launched over 145 according to his cover story in Inc. magazine), so I am going to go read more of his start-up advice. I have been moderately interested in (and moderately good at) a lot of random things in my life so far, but the only real passion I have discovered is my need for independence… so I am going to continue on my work-from-home, “website empire” path for now and see where it takes me.
Categories: Thinking, Work