Kenneth at 10 months…

Nov 23rd 2015 05:45:00 pm


My sweet, little guy is 10 months old! Well, actually right now he is 10 and a half months old… we were traveling during the actual milestone. Fitting in picture taking and blogging is never easy, not to mention when you have just gotten home from a big trip! And, getting this baby to pose for his portraits was nearly impossible. He just wants to stand and move and climb! But I guess that is perfectly representative of his current stage, so we’ll just go with it. We do the best we can and call it good.


Kenneth is a big boy now! He acts like he is totally independent and not in need of parents any more… well, except for all the diaper changing and food providing. But he barely has time for those boring things anyway! He loves playing and exploring. He wants to inspect and deconstruct anything new to him, like the trash can, dog food bowl, file cabinets, laundry hampers, etc. He is a curious guy who gets really excited about his new discoveries. It is fun to watch him investigate and conquer his world!


Fun Facts about Kenneth at 10 months:

  • Ken has five teeth! His top right lateral incisor is poking out and the left one is just about ready to erupt. He likes his teeth and often does a funny open-mouth grin to show them off.
  • Kenneth can stand on his own! He has been walking and standing while holding onto things (furniture, walker toys, mom or dad) for a while, but now he often “free stands” without holding onto anything. He seems to be doing it just for fun sometimes and can balance for quite a while on his own, but still choses to squat down and start crawling instead of taking any unsupported steps yet. Crawling is still faster and more efficient for him than walking. But we’ll see how long that lasts…
  • I think Kenneth is using language! He DEFINITELY says “dada” in reference to Travis. He also seems to say “dog” when Crusher is around. And I swear he says “hi” back to me and “ya” in response to my questions. Of course, he also babbles a lot, and squeals, and laughs, and grunts and reaches for things he wants.
  • He basically eats anything. He really likes berries and yogurt and cheese, but he gets a taste of nearly everything I eat. He can drink from a straw and often shares a smoothie with me. (I also still breastfeed him four times a day.)
  • Kenneth has gotten into a fairly set routine. He wakes up around 6-7, naps at about 9 until 11-12, naps again around 3 until 4-5, and then goes to sleep around 7-8. He doesn’t HAVE to have both naps everyday, but he is in a better mood if he does!
  • Kenneth still LOVES: music, Crusher, other babies, and playgrounds. He also LOVES when his dad gets home each day. He excitedly crawls to meet him as soon as he walks in the door and reaches to be picked up. It is very sweet.


Traveling with a 10-month-old:

Earlier this month we took an eleven day trip to Hawaii and Los Angeles. We went to Hawaii with more than a dozen of our Brooklyn friends for Brian and Jeanette’s wedding. It took 13 hours of travel to get there. I can’t tell you that I wasn’t nervous about bringing a baby on flights that long, but it was actually ok. I tried not to get anxious about it and I think treating it like no big deal rubbed off on Ken. He was perfectly fine, if really fidgety and NOT sleepy, on the flights there. Travis had upgraded our seats to the bulk head area with extra room and I had packed a bunch of toys and books, but I don’t think either was necessary. Ken basically just loved exploring the plane stuff and playing Peek-a-boo Barn on my phone the best. Snacks (for everyone involved) were a necessity. Also necessary were our own car seat and stroller, which we checked (for free!) on the flights.

We stayed with 13 friends in an Air BnB house for the first five nights in Hawaii. It went really well. I was worried about Ken crying and keeping people awake, but we just tried to not let him cry much. The huge time zone change messed us all up somewhat, so we basically just ended up waking up really early. But that meant that Ken got in his good morning nap before much activity started each day. The house came with a high chair and pack-n-play, which was really handy. For the additional two nights in Hawaii, we switched to a hotel. They also had a crib for us to use and even provided nice baby toiletries and some new toys!

Ken liked swimming in the ocean and pools. He was enthralled by the luau at the wedding reception. He was a real trooper and happily tagged along on all of our sight seeing around the Big Island. Getting him in and out of his car seat was a hassle, but otherwise, it was fun having him around and not too much of an inconvenience. I hope our friends felt the same way. Travis and I each did one solo adventure (surfing for him, snorkeling with manta rays for me) while the other stayed with Ken, which worked out well.

By the time we were on our way to LA, Ken was just chronically tired. He didn’t do as well on the flight there. He cried a lot and Travis stood and held him for much of the flight. I was stressed. Thank goodness that plane was nearly empty. No one seemed perturbed by him at all.

It was great for Ken to meet his family and friends in California. We spent a whole day with his great aunt Carol and great uncles John and Glenn. He got in some good naps, but he was still tired and totally out of his routine and time zone. On our final day we took him to Disneyland! It was really fun for Travis and me, but Ken could barely stay awake at the park! He fell asleep DURING the Haunted Mansion ride. The entire trip had finally worn him out.

All in all, traveling with a baby is totally doable. Even fun! Of course, it is way easier to travel without a baby… but traveling with one is still much more fun than staying home!


Travis took this photo of Ken in a hammock in Hawaii right after his 10-month “birthday.” I think he looks so old in it. I am so glad we’ve gotten to share so many experiences and adventures with him already. I look forward to a life time of many more!


Also, check out Kenneth at one month, Kenneth at two months, Kenneth at three months, Kenneth at four months, Kenneth at five months, Kenneth at six months, Kenneth at seven months, Kenneth at eight months, and Kenneth at nine months.

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big weekend highlights

Nov 2nd 2015 11:38:48 am


Halloween! King Kong and crew. (More photos.)


NYC Marathon! Travis ran the city for his second time (10th overall marathon!) and Kenneth and I cheered for him at two spots. Such a fun and exhausting day in NYC. (Kenneth needs to work on his marathon cheer training.) (More photos)


World Series! So, we didn’t actually watch all of the final game because we were too exhausted… but we are so excited for the Royals! Ken saw both teams play at their respective stadiums this year and predicted the Series weeks ago.

This week, we are off to Hawaii and then the holiday season starts… This little family stays busy!

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Kenneth at eight months…

Sep 9th 2015 10:16:11 am


Kenneth is growing up so fast and learning so many things! As of yesterday, he is eight months old. It is amazing, but also a little scary. He no longer seems like a baby. He does things. He has plans and goals. He goes and gets what he wants. He is so fun right now and I love him so much. I keep wishing I could freeze time. But I also feel guilty saying that because I never wanted to be a parent who didn’t want their kids to grow up. I want him to have a full, fun, long life, but I just wish I could keep revisiting these moments with him as an 8-month-old forever.


Fun Facts about Kenneth at Eight Months:

  • You guys! Kenneth can high five! I worked on it with him for one day and now he can pretty much do it on command. It is really cute. He will also usually give you a kiss when you ask for one.
  • We did an at-home measurement, and Kenneth seems to be at least 30 inches tall. He is catching up to his dad!
  • He crawls at top speed and can make it all over the apartment in minutes. He grabs and reaches for EVERYTHING! He has really put my cleaning to the test. I vacuum everyday just so that he doesn’t find anything gross on the ground.
  • He can easily pull himself up to standing all on his own now. And he does it as often as possible. He seems determined to practice standing at every opportunity. He has even been doing a bit of cruising, walking along the couch while holding on. I think he is going to walk soon, which is crazy!
  • This baby LOVES music! He only pays attention to the tv when there is music playing and he loves carrying around my phone when it is playing music. He’ll dance along by wiggling his body. SO cute! I took him to two group sing-a-longs at a local toy store this month and he adores them. He pays attention the whole time and uses the instruments. I sing (poorly) to him every day, but I feel guilty for not doing more music activities with him previously.
  • I only nurse Ken 4-5 times a day now. A few months ago, I thought it would be impossible to feed him so few times a day, but the solid food transition seems to be happening naturally.
  • I’ve been really, um, not strict (relaxed?) with giving him all sorts of solid food. He feeds himself tiny pieces of fruits, veggies, bread, meat, cheese, cereal, etc. He has had peanut butter, eggs, and strawberries without having any reactions, so there’s no evidence of food allergies at this point. His favorite foods seem to be avocado, plums, and plain yogurt. He LOVES yogurt! He doesn’t like cucumbers or pureed baby food containing meat.
  • Kenneth is still very passionate about cords and he has developed an extreme interest in the vacuum. Which is good, since I have it out every day to clean up his food messes.
  • Ken got his first stomach bug this month. He had a slight fever, lower appetite, and lots of icky diapers. I took him to the doctor even though I probably didn’t need to. He got over it in a few days.
  • He has the bluest eyes and lots of blonde hair growing in… I can’t be objective, I think he is cutest baby in the world. I know I am losing my mind a bit and I’m not being rational, but he seems perfect to me.


Thoughts on parenthood…

A friend of mine from grad school lost her six-year-old daughter this month to cancer. I have cried many tears over the last weeks just considering the loss she and her husband are experiencing. I truly can’t imagine what they are actually going through. I think about them every day. Add on the heart-breaking refugee crisis in the news and the recent death of a childhood friend, and it has been an emotional month.

Being a parent is scary. The love is so intense and the heart-stopping fear of losing your child is ever-present. At least for me. But I am trying to be brave. I won’t allow fear to rule my life. Or Kenneth’s. Because being a parent is also so fun! More fun than I ever pictured. The first few months were tough for me, for sure, but now I am so happy. It surprises me. There are still personal things that aren’t perfect (I still can’t really run, I’ve been sick with a terrible cough, my weight loss has slowed/stopped, etc) but being a mom to Ken trumps all of it. In my pre-mom life I dreaded the thought of parenthood taking over all of my interests and hobbies, and I still hope to never lose my self, but parenthood feels good. It is difficult, it is emotional, and it is tiring, but it has brought me a lot of peace. I’m not trying to evangelize, I promise. I am just sort of amazed. The really crazy part? I am having thoughts about having a second one!! Ahhh!


Kenneth’s original flickr album has gotten way too large (with 7,000+ photos) and now I can’t load it or edit it. Eek. So I started a new one for 8-12 months. Check it out.


Also, check out Kenneth at one month, Kenneth at two months, Kenneth at three months, Kenneth at four months, Kenneth at five months, Kenneth at six months, and Kenneth at seven months.

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Kenneth at seven months…

Aug 13th 2015 11:42:21 am



Kenneth is seven months old!! Wow. Specifically, he is 31 weeks old today. He has become such a little BOY lately. He is very mobile and loves exploring everything. Which includes grabbing everything and tasting everything. This is very good for his development, but not so good for accomplishing his monthly photo shoot. He could not resist his sticker this month. I was frustrated that we couldn’t get the “perfect” photo, but Travis reminded me that he is just a baby. Oh, right. Maybe I expect too much from him, but he always seems to roll with everything we subject him to. He goes into the city on the subway, checks out museums and parks, goes for hours of rides in his jog stroller, and even flew (on a red eye) to and from Oregon last month without much trouble. He is a cooperative and fun boy!


Fun facts about Kenneth at 7 months:

  • Big news! Ken’s first tooth started poking through on July 28th! It is his bottom left tooth and he seems quite proud of it, even letting me touch it and take photos. Ha! Since then his second bottom tooth has poked through.
  • I’m not sure of Ken’s official height and weight, but he is definitely a big boy! We are now dressing him in mostly 9-12 month clothes. I only buy 12-month or larger nowadays.
  • At the suggestion of our pediatrician, we have been giving Ken some water to drink out of a sippy cup. He amazed me by catching onto holding and drinking from the cup right away. Wow!
  • He has also been eating a lot more solid (“human”) foods, including his first Cherrios. Yum! He can feed himself from the baby food pouches and he eats in his high chair with us at nearly every meal. In addition to the usual fruits and veggies, he has had bread, smoothies, and a little cheese. Last week he had his first taste of animal: chicken! And yesterday, he had his first little taste of a Shake Shack burger!! He loved it and wanted more.
  • He loves grabbing ANYTHING… and promptly putting it in his mouth or throwing in on the ground.
  • Kenneth’s greatest passion of late is cords. He loves cords. He can somehow find and propel himself toward any and all cords in the house. Which isn’t good because they aren’t exactly safe baby toys. We are keeping an eye on him.
  • He isn’t technically crawling yet — just spending a lot of time wiggling around on all fours — but he is scooting, army crawling, rolling, planking, and pushing himself all over. He spends a lot of time playing on the living room floor. He also likes trying to climb things and standing up while hanging onto the coffee table. He can pull himself up to standing from sitting, but it is still really tough and wobbly for him. He works especially hard at trying to throw his body off the changing able at every diaper change, which I am trying hard to discourage.
  • He is definitely exploring his voice and loves squealing and saying “dada” over and over. He also seems to say things like “hi” and “hey” in response to us, but I can’t be sure if he is really trying to use language or just making noise. I think we still have some time before he officially says a first word.
  • Kenneth is very interested in Crusher and other kids. He loves to pet Crusher, but Crusher has to be bribed with treats to allow it to happen. We’ve taken Ken to a few parks, but I need to get him enrolled in some sort of class so that he can interact with other babies.
  • On August 2nd, Kenneth went to his first Mets game. He has now been to four baseball games at four different MLB stadiums… and has game balls from each to prove it!



Mama Thoughts:

Overall, I am feeling extremely happy with being a stay-at-home mom these days. Ken is a lot of fun and I am so glad I get to spend time with him. My only complaint is that I REALLY WISH I could get more non-mom tasks accomplished. I have so much on my Swap-bot to do list! I haven’t figured out child care yet, but we have actually booked our first babysitter for tomorrow night, so we will see how that goes.

Breastfeeding is actually becoming comfortable, which is really nice. With all of his extra solid food consumption, Ken seems to be nursing less. It makes me hopeful that the weaning process will happen naturally over the next few months. I still stand by my many previous statements that I won’t miss breast feeding, but it does feels a little sad to know that he is growing up and won’t need me for food for much longer.

I didn’t think I would be a very sentimental mom, but I have found myself crying on more than one night when thinking about him growing up. He already pushes my hand away when I try to wipe his face. He will be a boy soon. And he will be embarrassed of me and tell me not to talk to him at school. Then he will be a man, and get married, and move away, and never need me again. But I guess that is actually the best case scenario and I shouldn’t dread it. I am just really glad that I get to experience him and his development. Certainly, having kids is not for everyone, but I am enjoying being a parent even more than I thought I would. I am just grateful that it is part of my life experience.

Kenneth is awesome.



We have taken SO MANY photos of Ken! Check out all of mine in my Kenneth Gunner Johnson Flickr photo album. Nearly 7,000 photos at 7 months old, that seems about right, right? (Travis has also taken a few photos of his son… view them on his Flickr.)

Also, check out Kenneth at one month, Kenneth at two months, Kenneth at three months, Kenneth at four months, Kenneth at five months, and Kenneth at six months.

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Family Time in Portland

Aug 9th 2015 01:19:11 pm


July was a big month for travel! After our trip to Maine, we had less that a week at home before heading out again to Portland, Oregon. Travis had a conference to attend there for work and Kenneth and I came along to visit with my brother, sister-in-law, and parents. It was a great combo trip!


Kenneth got to meet his my brother, Adam, and his wife, Nina, for the first time. He liked them both, but Nina could really get him to smile! Nina and Adam are both completing their Oncology/Hematology fellowships at OHSU. They work really hard. I’m impressed by their dedication!


Travis and I have been to Portland many times (most recently two years ago) and we had to check out a few of our favorite places (like Papa Haydn’s and Dutch Bros), but we also did a few new things this time…

My favorite things to see/eat/do in Portland, Oregon:

  • Screen Door – Our first restaurant stop! We did brunch on Sunday and I had the praline bacon waffle. It reminded me of New Orleans.
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  • Ava Gene’s – Delicious, fancy restaurant from the people who make Stumptown coffee.
  • Sizzle Pie – Creative pizza with lots of hipster, vegan, gluten free, etc options.
  • Blue Star Donuts – So much better than Voodoo Doughnuts.
  • Salt & Straw – Amazing ice cream (with the long lines to prove it).
  • Lan Su Chinese Garden – A pretty oasis in downtown. We had tea and moon cakes in the tea house. So lovely.
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  • Powell’s Books – ALL the books. I couldn’t resist buying Ken four new kids books.
  • Multnomah Falls – This was my first time visiting and the falls were quite impressive. We ate at the lodge restaurant and Adam and I climbed the uphill mile to the top.
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  • Haystack Rock – At Cannon Beach on the coast west of Portland. Some of the scenes from Goonies were filmed there!
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In addition to meeting his aunt and uncle for the first time, Kenneth got to spend a lot of time with his grandparents… and he loved it! They spent a lot of time holding him, playing with him, and strolling him. They babysat him while Travis and I went out on a double date with Adam and Nina to Ava Gene’s. Very nice!


While Travis, Adam, and Nina were doing work stuff, Ken and I got to go with Grandma and Grandpa to Haystack Rock on the coast west of Portland. It was Ken’s first time touching the Pacific Ocean! We also did some sight seeing and walking around the city, including checking out Powell’s and the Chinese Garden.


Once Travis was finished with his conference, our little Johnson family had a nice day of walking around downtown Portland. We shopped, I drank too much Stumptown coffee, and we went to check out the Timbers’ arena.


I love Portland. I think it is such a fun, cool, easy city with great food and a lot to see. I really think anyone would love visiting this lovely Pacific Northwest hot spot. Bonus points if you also get to spend quality time with family while you are there!!


Check out all of my photos from the trip in my Portland 2015 Flickr Album.

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Maine Escape 2015

Jul 30th 2015 03:03:42 pm


Earlier this month, Travis, Kenneth, and I took our first ever trip to Maine to visit with family and friends. We stayed in the tiny island town of Stonington, Maine, as guests of our awesome friends, the Billings. The lobster fishing town has about 1,000 residents, a beautiful view of the sea, and a cute main street.



This was our first road trip with Kenneth and he did quite well on the drives. We stopped in Boston on our way up and back from Maine and got to check out a few sights, including the Boston Museum of Fine Arts, Blackbird Doughnuts, and Fenway Stadium.



This was my very first time in Maine and I was blown away by the beauty of the stone and sea and sky. Even though I wouldn’t describe myself as an ocean person (I was born in the landlocked midwest!) I really enjoyed being on the water and seeing all of the sea life, like seals, jellyfish, lobsters, and seagulls.



We had a great week of kayaking (my first time — I loved it!), boating to a small, uninhabited island to hike and picnic, visiting Cadillac Mountain and Bar Harbor, shopping in town in Stonington, and my favorite: eating the local lobster and clams.




Ken achieved a lot of milestones on this, his first road trip: he sat in a restaurant high chair for the first time, he rode in a grocery store cart for the first time, he road in his first boat and touched the Atlantic Ocean for the first time, and he attended his third baseball game at Fenway Stadium.



Traveling with a baby is more difficult than not — I was quite sleep deprived all week from sharing a bed with Ken and waking to feed him more often than usual — but it is still a lot of fun and worth the effort. I think Ken enjoyed spending time with family and friends. We plan to keep dragging him along on many more adventures!

See all of my photos from the trip in my #MaineEscape2015 Flickr album.

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Kenneth at five months…

Jun 8th 2015 03:23:40 pm


So much fun! That is how I would describe Kenneth at five months old. He loves playing with toys (especially new ones!) and moving all around. He loves for us to read him books, looking astounded at each new colorful page. (He even seems to be attempting to turn the pages himself, but maybe I’m reading too much into his grabbing reflex.) He likes his dad and me to sing him to sleep, that or talk to each other about something very boring. He doesn’t have any teeth yet, but he definitely wants to put everything in his mouth to chew on. And he drools. A lot. Sometimes he is very serious, observing the world around him intently. But overall he is just a sweet, easy-going, happy baby.


I know that I can’t really be objective, but to me he is absolutely perfect. I love him so much.


Some Fun Facts…

  • Kenneth weighs 17.5 lbs and is somewhere over 27 inches tall. He went into the doctor’s for an extra 5-month weight check last week since his weight hadn’t been increasing as quickly as his height. The doctors were pleased with his gain and didn’t even check his height… so I guess that means all is good.
  • Kenneth’s two passions lately seem to be blowing spit bubbles and doing backbends out of mom or dad’s arms. Both of which I don’t love. But I try to support him in his interests…
  • In addition to the backbends, Kenneth is much more rolly-polly and movement-focused lately. He loves to try to sit, and stand, and roll, and even attempt to crawl. He sort of throws himself out of our arms in an attempt to get places, which makes him somewhat difficult to wrangle. He is a boy who loves to move!!
  • He can sit unassisted for a few seconds at a time… and he is very proud of himself when he does!
  • He giggles when I kiss his neck and pretend to munch on his fingers or toes, and he LOVES “flying” around as Super Baby with his dad.
  • We started feeding Kenneth a bit of solid (ish) food just after his four month birthday on the advice of his pediatrician. So far he has had rice cereal, mashed bananas, a little steamed and mashed carrot, sweet potatoes, and a little avocado.
  • Ken went on his first plan ride to Kansas City on May 22nd to visit his grandparents and aunts and uncles. He was an awesome travel baby, sleeping for the majority of the flights and barely fussing. The entire trip went well. Ken went to his first Royals game on the 23rd, spent a lot of quality time with his grandparents and great Grammy, and got to meet most of his aunts and uncles for the first time.
  • Nearly all of Ken’s brownish-red baby hair has fallen out and fine, white-blonde hair is taking its place. He looks like such a different baby than he did at one month!


I read somewhere that the only thing more profound than the love you have for your child is your fear of losing them. That thought has stuck with me. I am a defiantly optimistic person and try hard not to dwell on fear and worry, but Kenneth is so precious to me that it is scary. I just hope and pray that I can give him the love and support he needs to have an incredible, rewarding, happy, long life.


Also, check out Kenneth at one month, Kenneth at two months, Kenneth at three months, and Kenneth at four months.

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Kenneth at four months…

May 14th 2015 08:54:09 am

Time is going more and more quickly and I’m starting to panic about not keeping a diligent record of all the cute things Ken has been doing. Turns out that blogging takes a lot of time, computer time that I don’t really have these days…


Last week Kenneth turned fourth months old, and he just keeps getting more and more fun. He is more like a little person and less like a hungry little crying creature. He has likes and dislikes, and he loves interacting with his mom and dad.


Things I don’t want to forget:

  • At his four month doctor check up he weighed 16 lbs and was 27 inches tall. His height is off the charts (greater than the 98th percentile), but his weight is a little low (75th percentile). The doctor suggested we start him on a little solid food to supplement. I am very grateful that breast feeding has gotten less painful and I am proud of myself for breastfeeding him exclusively for these last four months, but I welcome any relief in the feeding department.
  • He is so cheery (and wiggly) when he wakes up in the morning. All smiles and giggles.
  • When Travis and I read and sing to him in our bed while getting him ready for sleep, he reaches his arms out to either side to make sure he is touching us both.
  • The way he strokes my hand while he is eating.
  • How excited he gets when I lean in to give him kisses on his face. He looks at me with such adoration. It is such a sweet feeling.
  • He is working on rolling, but hasn’t quite made the back-to-front roll totally by himself yet. He rolls side to side often to grab toys and he is able to wiggle himself all over the floor by throwing his legs in the air repeatedly.
  • He loves trying to sit and stand with assistance ALL THE TIME… which can get tiring for mom and dad.
  • He visited the Brooklyn Museum for the first time this month, and got his very own passport!
  • He had his tongue tie treated with a laser on April 17th. He recovered quickly and seems to enjoy his new tongue mobility.
  • He went to his first baseball game on May 8th at Yankee Stadium. The Yankees were playing the Orioles, and he slept through most of it despite the noise.


Travis and I were and are so thrilled to be parents and we couldn’t have hoped for a better baby… But for a while it was was hard to admit that the pain and difficulty of the first few months was worth it. Motherhood is the most difficult challenge I’ve ever embarked on. But at the same time, Ken is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Maybe that sounds like something that parents HAVE to say, but it is actually exactly how I feel. My love for him just keeps growing. To me, he is perfect and precious. He is so amazing that it borders on magical. It boggles my mind to think of what a unique person he is — someone we never could have predicted before meeting him. It may sound cliche, but his smiles and little advancements really are immensely rewarding. Parenthood just keeps getting better and better.

A few more cute pics:






Want more cute pics? I have almost 3,500 photos of Ken in his Flickr album.

Also, check out Ken at one month, Ken at two months, and Kenneth at three months.

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kenneth at three months…

Apr 9th 2015 08:05:51 pm


Yesterday was Kenneth’s three month birthday! Wow. He is a growing boy! Ken and I are close and inseparable friends these days. He and I have been going on a lot more adventures this month, heading into Manhattan at least once a week and running errands all around Brooklyn. He is a fun baby who loves to interact, babble, and trade smiles. We spend a lot of time adoringly staring into each others eyes and grinning.


Facts about Kenneth at three months…

  • I’m not exactly sure what his measurements are because we don’t go back to the doctor until next month, but he definitely weighs more than 14 pounds and is over 25 inches long. He is wearing some of his 6-month clothes already!
  • We are blessed in that he is a great sleeper at night. He sleeps in an initial eight-hour chunk, wakes for a feeding around 4 am, and then sleeps another three hours. We all feel pretty well rested.
  • He loves the mornings and is a cheerful little early bird.
  • He lights up when you smile or talk to him. He has been trying out all sorts of new sounds and loves conversing back and forth.
  • He is getting much stronger at tummy time, and even enjoys it. He is also working on arching his back and swinging his legs in preparation for rolling over. He loves trying to “stand” with assistance from mom or dad.
  • He loves his toy mirrors and holds intricate conversations with the baby he sees in them.
  • He still hasn’t quite figured out his thumb, but he loves sucking on his hands and fingers. He also loves clasping his hands together and admiring his feat of dexterity.
  • Sometimes his hair looks brown, sometimes red, but it seems to be growing in light blonde at the roots.
  • He has seen the Empire State Building, the Flatiron Building, and last weekend he went on his first big train trip to Philadelphia. He did great riding in his stroller all over town and he loved the art museum and the Liberty Bell.


Mama Update:

I want to show no weakness and tell you that everything is going well… and it certainly is in the sense that Ken is an awesome and healthy baby… BUT I am in pain. Unrelenting, endless pain and discomfort. All of the new baby things you worry about before the baby is born — sleepless nights, poop explosions, spit-up, their constant need for attention — all of those things are minuscule inconveniences when compared to being in pain all of the time. I feel like if I could just feel comfortable in my body again, I could really kick butt at this mom thing. This is how you’ll know things are serious: I really don’t even care about losing weight or ever running again, I just want to feel less pain. It sounds dramatic and I wish it wasn’t the truth, but it is.

Breastfeeding is still very painful. We are working on getting Ken’s severe tongue tie treated, which may end up being the solution, but the process has been frustrating. The pediatricians have been dismissive of tongue tie in general, but I finally insisted on a referral to a specialist. The specialist saw him and agreed that he should be treated, but now we are stuck in limbo waiting for insurance to approve the procedure. Which is ridiculous, because the “procedure” will literally take 30 seconds. But at this point I am worried that there may be more problems going on in addition to the tongue tie… my breasts are always tender and in pain, during and in between feedings. After reading what seems like every breastfeeding resource on the planet, I’ve started every possible homeopathic treatment for breast infections while I wait to see my doctor in two weeks.

Competing with breastfeeding for first place in the pain and discomfort category is my entire hip and pelvic region. Walking while wearing Ken in the baby carrier is hard on my body, which isn’t good because it is a necessity if I want to leave the house. The good news is that physical therapy does seem to be helping. It is slow going and I still need to avoid high impact activity, but I think I will eventually make some progress. And my therapist, Justine, at Renew is so professional, kind, and helpful. I am grateful to have access to the therapy… and that they let me bring Ken to my sessions.

Minus the pain, everything is going so well. Travis and Ken are wonderful. (Crusher is a bit of a stinker these days, but he is wonderful, too.) I just keep trying to stay strong and get through this tough time. I try to remind myself that in a year I will have gotten through all of this and I probably won’t even remember why it was so tough. And I can honestly say from the heart that it is worth it.



Want more cute pics? I have almost 3,000 photos of Ken in his Flickr album.

Also, check out Ken at one month & Ken at two months.

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Kenneth at two months…

Mar 10th 2015 03:22:44 pm


On Sunday, Kenneth turned two months old. He seems so big and so old now! It has been fun to watch him awaken to the world and start interacting with us a bit more. What else has he been up to? Practicing his smiles, discovering toys, requesting kisses, and of course, sleeping quite a bit.


Facts about Kenneth at two months:

  • At his two-month doctor appointment last week he weighed 12 lbs 10 ozs and was 24.25 inches long! Very tall (99th percentile!) and a bit skinny, but the doctor was pleased with his weight gain.
  • He has been sleeping longer at night, which is amazing. On Sunday night he slept for eight full hours straight! That was a big deal, but on most nights he gets in at least one 4-6 hour chunk. Not bad at all on his parents. We are feeling good!
  • He has started smiling a lot more and even initiates smile conversations. He giggles a bit, but we can’t wait for more!
  • He is not a big fan of sleeping in his crib and isn’t really on a strict nap schedule. But he does like looking at his play mirror in his crib.
  • He likes blowing drool bubbles. Bibs have become a necessity.
  • He loves getting kisses on his face and even “asks” for them by putting his mouth up in the air. Very cute.
  • He still likes being swaddled at night and loves riding in his baby carriers during the day.
  • He seems to have noticed Crusher and sometimes watches him walk around. Crusher has attempted to “play” with Ken by barking at him and teasing him, but Ken doesn’t seem to understand the game.
  • All four of us have really started to get to know one another and become a more cohesive family. It is a fun time!


Mama Update:

You guys, things are getting SO MUCH BETTER. (I had real coffee for the first time today, which may be positively affecting my mood.)

Breastfeeding can still be uncomfortable and demanding, but Ken seems to be eating less frequently and my boobs are feeling much better. Feeding him feels more natural now, even if it is still time consuming. I am proud of myself for making it for more than eight weeks of exclusively breastfeeding. I plan to try to make it a year, but whatever happens, I am happy that I have stuck it out as long as I have.

Over the last two weeks I have started working out again. It feels great. I am out of shape and running is still nearly impossible with my wonky hips, but I really like my video workouts and can already notice strength improvements. And I have lost two pounds! Thank goodness for progress!

The weather is finally better this week and I have actually been getting stuff done. Ken and I have met up with a few friends for food, we’ve gone to mom & baby yoga, and we’ve even gone to the grocery store AND fixed dinner on the same day! I didn’t know if that last thing would ever be possible again. I feel confident taking Ken out and even feeding him in public.

Sunday was a down day after attempting to run and then attempting to buy new workout clothes. Neither attempt was very successful and I started feeling sorry for myself again… but I am having many more good days than down days lately and I feel like I am coming into my own in this new mommy life. Hooray!

And that is all I can post for now because Ken just started crying for his afternoon snack…


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I'm Rachel. I run websites and run marathons. I live in Brooklyn and write about art, crafts, design, food, fitness, fashion, my daily life, and New York City.





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